Breakups can be difficult. Even if the breakup is a mutual decision, it can be hard to deal with the end of a relationship. Sometimes a breakup is harder for one person than the other. Sometimes one person moves on faster than the other person.

Imagine watching your ex bounce back and happily enter a new relationship before you’re entirely over them. Even if you’re 100% on board with the relationship ending, it can still be hard to watch your former significant other move on when you’re not ready to get back out there yet.

Yes. We’re talking about Jennifer Lopez and Alex Rodriguez. Ever since Lopez and Rodriguez announced that their relationship was over, the talk has turned to the rebirth of Bennifer.

Ben Affleck was spotted visiting Lopez’s home several times, and then they went away for the weekend together. While some sources claimed that they were just friends, it became harder to believe that story after their weekend away.

How is A-Rod taking the news that Lopez and Affleck are together? He posted a message in his Instagram stories that started, “I am about to step into a new beginning in my life.” The ominous message ended, “I am remaining patient and know that this new phase of my life is coming.”

Meanwhile, Lopez and Affleck have taken their love affair to Miami where they are staying in a house together. It seems that she has moved on and isn’t looking back, but A-Rod isn’t there quite yet. Watch the video below for more on this complicated love triangle.

A source told PEOPLE that A-Rod isn’t happy about Lopez’s relationship with Affleck. The source explained, “It definitely hurt his ego” when he found out they were in Montana together. The source added that Rodriguez “was under the impression that he and Jennifer would go on as friends, but he is acting so needy that Jennifer cut him off.”

Do you think Lopez and Affleck will make their relationship official someday? Do you think A-Rod is going to start dating again soon? Do you think Lopez broke up with Rodriguez to get back together with Affleck?