There are many things women do in private that they don’t talk about in public. Sometimes they don’t even want to tell their friends because they’re afraid they’ll look at them like they’re crazy. Other times, they feel there’s no need to bring up these private things because they assume many other women also do the same thing.

Reddit user simplybrowsing asked, “Alright we’ve discovered what all Men of Reddit do, now Women of Reddit what are some things you are sure all women do or have done?”

Many women responded with examples of things they do that are either weird or very relatable. You decide.

1. At the Gynocologist

   Reddit user Elarie wrote:

   Hide your panties inside your clothes at the Gynocologist office

2. “Shower Math”

   itsjill shared:

   Do shower math when you wake up to see how long you have to sleep and if it’s even worth showering or go back to bed and put your hair in a bun for work.

3. Has It Started Yet?

   HiOnAir added:

   Period Paranoia: Make unnecessary trips to the bathroom before or during period time. It’s lik hammertime, backed up against a wall, shuffling to the bathroom- except a lot more sad.

4. Hair on the Walls

   klcna explained:

   When hairs fall out in the shower I don’t want to clog the drain so I put them on the shower wall and do a little swirl so they are neat and ready to be put in the garbage when I’m done.

5. Staying Home

   dizzzymisslizzzy answered:

   I don’t know about the rest of you ladies, but once I get home and the bra comes off, there would have to be a fire to get me out of the house again.

6. Uh-Oh

   bekahrama explained:

   Laughed or coughed so hard when you’re on your period and more blood or a blood clot comes out. Then you have to do a quick waddle walk to the bathroom cause you feel like you just turned on the faucet.

7. Kegels

   Wadyflamer wrote:

   Kegels. Kegels in meetings at work. Kegels in the movie theatre. Kegels at dinner with friends. Kegels everywhere. If you’re talking to me, and I’m sitting, I am definitely kegeling.

8. In the Mirror

   JMango added:

   Open my mouth really wide while putting mascara on. Also, redoing updos 30 times even though I’m pretty sure it looks the same every time.

9. Mary Kate and Ashley

   msmomilla answered:

   Hold my boobs while running down the stairs… That shit hurts. Edit: Also, naming my boobs! I’m sure there’s another girl out there with Mary Kate and Ashley like me. Mary Kate’s the left one… The bad one.

10. Goodbye Bra

    KMKSouthie2001 shared:

    Enjoy the rush of freedom and lack of constriction that comes from taking one’s bra off at the end of the day.

11. Not Pregnant

    pilvipa explained:

    Secretly happy and relieved to get our periods, because it means not being pregnant.