Watching picture-perfect couples on TV and in movies can be fun, but it can also be incredibly frustrating. These typically unrealistic portrayals of romance can perpetuate ideas of how a relationship “should be,” which can leave us feeling down about the flaws of our real-life relationships.

We think, “My partner and I don’t do everything together, does that mean we’re not compatible?” or “We argue over who’s going to do the dishes, does that mean we’re doomed to fail?”

These relationship myths have a way of making us feel inadequate if every little thing isn’t perfect with your significant other, but we’re here to tell you that couldn’t be further from the truth.

Watch the video below to see five of the most unrealistic relationship expectations you’ll hear and what’s realistic:

Are there any other relationship myths you hate? Make sure to share them with us!