Gender reveal parties can be fun—they make everyone giddy about finding out if your future child will be a boy or a girl. The second the balloon pops or the cake is cut and the pink or blue peeks through, cheers of utter thrills pile through the room.

Well, unless you use an explosive device to reveal the gender of your child. Gunfire and smoke are actually common tools used for gender reveal parties. But after a recent gender reveal party caused a wildfire in California, hopefully, people are going to lay off of that kind of reveal for now.

Nevertheless, the internet can’t help but sneer at what these kinds of parties have come to. They’ve actually started to create memes that show just out how of control they really can be. Scroll through for a giggle!

How accurate are some of these memes? Are you pro gender reveal parties, or do you think they’ve gotten out of hand?